I incisively remember that two weeks ago, I gave a higher value to a person for his good public speaking and gave a lower one to those who tend to speak bluntly; in this i mean s/he can't respond good enough in panic condition.
But it reversed last night. I started to think that I have been wrong all this time from judging someone one sided-ly. I regret it so much because i find out that I am stupid for being a narrow minded.
these meantime I've listened to various stories of my friends meeting new buddies. I made a conclusion. It is not fair to put a blame on a person because s/he is lacking in something. One might be picky in sharing foods, but so generous in teaching new knowledge. One might be hard to approach, so we label them as an individualist, but when we push ourselves a little further, s/he happens to be so witty and silly and funny. One might be arrogant for being smart, but s/he might be a good friend to motivate us in being a hardworker. The thing about labeling aomeone as a bad person is because we stop at a point when all we know is their bad sides, meanwhile, if we care to fathom deeper, there are so many good things about them in which we've neglected the existence.
By getting rid of the thought about the negative sides of a person, your thought will be fulfilled by looking for the methods to be better than the people around you. It avoids you from staying too long at your status quo which is bad since it prevents you from making an improvement.
I see that in order to push myself to be better, I've gotta have a mindset that humans are considered equal for having a bad side; what differs one to another is the will to optimize the good one to be more prominent.
So pals, like what have been reputedly said in Silver Lining Playbooks the movie, Excelsior! Get rid of the negatives and use it as a fuel to be better.
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